Friday, May 16, 2008

the actors (drivers) of my life

Am an Indian girl. Born in a family where my birth's celebration was clubbed with my great grandmother's funereal feast.
My mother was the Guinea Pig of the family)People could treat her the way they wanted to )My father was a rich man's son but was given a meager pocket money in which he had to manage his wife and family.However, he was a stud ;) so he managed to work outside the family business and gave us everything we ever wanted.I have a younger sister who is a sensitive person. Although bad at math she calculates every move in life and thinks of the positive and the negative integers.My husband makes me a lucky bitch. I got all the freedom in life I ever dreamed of. He gave me wings to fly. Love u darling!In a nutshell i have seen both, the highs and the lows in life.

friends spaced out but friends forever

Well this is about a dear friend who joined my school in 5th grade.I was an average student but she was exceptionally good.She would not back out of anything, and I guess some of her smarts & guts rubbed off on me. Soon she became the apple of the eye of many teachers.She had a designer hand writing; very different, wont call it beautiful. She became a part of my family and I a part of hers.She was the one who motivated me to sat YES to my husband when he as a 16 yr old started making eyes at the 13 yr old me. I was in 8th grade then.
One day ,she shocked me by telling me that her father had been transferred to another city and that she needed to move with him. That broke my heart. It felt as if the salt of my life had been taken away.However life goes on. Thanks to technology we managed to keep in touch.Can't recall when we lost touch and how.Then again the fairy called Technology brought us back together again.
Recently my parents stayed with her in Philli. They were very proud of her achievements and praised her to the high heavens. Well she deserves this & more . For being a wonderful human being besides being very very bright. Hey babe, u rock!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

she moma

Hi
Well am a 27 year old girl -women( i hate to accept it).Born to an Indian couple.They have given me the best they could. But I would especially mention my mother.She has gone to gr8 lenght to nurture me.as I was her first child and had younger sister, she did her all that she could to give me company.Although a task master sometimes she misconstrue me but still nothing compared to her love for me.She managed to feed me by hand till date every morsel of my meal.I have been very unreasonable with her.Could not mange to be a good daughter.However, she never expected me to be 1.As a child i would ask her "what do u expect me to become as an adult?"
She said that "I want u to be a good human being."Mom would paint clothes for me, make invites for my teenage parties.She is simply superb.At this juncture of her life she is completely torn and needs me.But i can't be there as I am busy being independent and need to attend to my
career.I miss u MOM.I hope I could do all I could for you and specially be physically present.U r a strong person and will overcome all odds.U have made this strong person that I am.I am proud to be ur daughter.Love u soooooooo much